A father of three seeks advice as he reveals how his wife reportedly orchestrated a plan with her ex-boyfriend to falsely accuse him of child molestation.
In a narration by a relationship adviser identified as @Remzsx, the man discovered the incriminating chats but initially remained silent.
When his wife publicly made the accusations, he exposed the evidence, leaving her family and friends shocked.
Despite his mother’s plea for reconciliation, citing concerns about bringing another woman into the family, the man remains firm in his decision to end the marriage due to irreparable trust issues.
What I found after going through my wife’s phone
My wife and I had a misunderstanding, and we settled the following day. I don’t know what prompted me to go through her phone, I’m not the type that checks a woman phone.
I saw her chats with her ex boyfriend. She told him everything that happened
and even said she regrets marrying me. Her ex said, he’s happy she has realize her mistake. She also told him, I warned her from communicating with him. The ex asked her if I’m mad? That I have no right to stop her from communicating with him.
He told her to promise him that she will never stop loving him or even think of not communicating with him. She made a promise to him to love him forever, she said he remains the only man she would ever love. Then he asked her why she is still married to me.
We have three children. She told him, she can’t just leave me when there is no serious issue. He advised her to accuse me of molesting our daughter, she said no. He persuaded her on a different date. She finally agreed. He told her once she accuse me of molesting our daughter, she should leave me to his house.
She should call my people, let people know I actually did it. The first day I read her chats with her ex, I was deeply hurt. But I withheld myself from asking her anything and pretended like I didn’t see the chats. And she never knew I went
through her phone because I hardly do.
When I saw the second chat I waited for her to accuse me. I didn’t tell anyone. Finally she accused me of molesting our daughter, our only daughter. I had screenshots of her chats with her boyfriend in my phone. But I didn’t show anyone.
I wanted her to leave because she’s a dead trap. No one believed her except for her family members and some of her friends. Then I showed everyone the screenshots. She has been begging and I have made it known to her that the marriage is over. My mom wants me to take her back.
I don’t want to do this. I don’t have any urge to be with any woman because my friends advised me to bring another woman in. My mom is against it, saying when she had issues with my father and she left that another woman almost killed me. That she doesn’t want any other woman in my house, she has been preaching this forgiveness thing for days now.
I tried bringing a lady home my mom sent her out. She said I should manage my wife. That it’s better that way since she’s the mother of my kids.
How do I stand a woman who framed me up? How do I sleep on the same bed with a woman who accused me of molesting our only daughter?I don’t want to be violent with her,though I warned her to stay away from me severally.What should I do?We have been married for 7years.When I met her,she was already separated from the ex. Where did I go wrong?”
